Romance Is a Skill. 30 Days to Build It.
One short email a day for 30 days, each with one simple thing to do or say to her, even if you've never thought of yourself as the romantic type.
“I miss how she would smile at me and not say anything at all”a husband, in his own words, on what he misses
START THE 30-DAY ROMANCE PLANHelping couples connect since 2015. This plan is what Hunter tells husbands who want the romance back.
Romance isn't a gene. It's a skill.
And the whole skill is thoughtfulness, mixed with spice, variety and surprise.
Hunter Masters is a former strength coach with two left feet. If romance ran on genetics, he'd be the last guy teaching thousands of couples to dance in their living rooms. The guys you know who seem naturally romantic just have more reps. This plan is 30 of them.
TEACH ME THE SKILL, HUNTER!From 2 months ago, a question was, “If you had an extra $100 to spend on yourself every week, what would you do?” I asked my wife that question, as we were out on a date night. She immediately answered, “I’d hire a personal trainer. I want to get back in shape to continue running marathons.” Guess what we did the very next week? Hire a personal trainer! The questions work to help me get deeper to my wife’s heart and her needs than I can normally get.
Tommy asked his wife one question on a date night. The next week, they hired her a personal trainer!
That exact question is one of the reps in this plan.
I WANT TO ASK BETTER QUESTIONS!Romance Is a Skill requires NO:
- Poetry
- Big budget
- Babysitter
- Grand gestures
- "Romantic gene"
- Dance experience
- Guessing what to say
- Hours a day (most take about ten minutes)
Here's how it works:
Order below...
Day 1 goes to your inbox right after checkout.
Open one email a day...
Each one gives you one simple thing to do or say to her.
Do the one thing.
Then go about your day. Tomorrow's email shows up on its own.
One small thing a day for 30 days, and the next one always shows up on its own.
I'M READY TO GET STARTED!What's Included?
- Day 1: the 30-second text. The exact words to send her, word for word. (Swap "baby" for whatever you call her.)
- The two-word answer for when she asks where this came from. Day 3 hands it to you before she ever asks. (So the new stuff never feels weird to send.)
- A dinner question that beats "how was your day." Plus the follow-up to ask if it goes somewhere good. (It's silly on purpose.)
- One phones-down hour. What to do with it, and what to leave out. (No TV, no logistics, no kid talk.)
- Two full date nights at home. Would You Rather on Day 7 and Bad Art Night on Day 14. (The first costs nothing. The second costs less than takeout.)
- What never to say right after a romantic gesture. The ten seconds where a lot of guys talk the moment to death. (Plus five sticky notes to hide instead.)
- The question she stopped asking out loud. Why a twirl answers it, and a five-minute after-dinner version that does the same job. (No dance floor required.)
- How to stop asking "what do you want to do tonight?" And a date morning she doesn't have to plan. (She'd rather be led than handed a menu.)
- Listening in three parts. For the night she comes home upset and you want to fix it. (Say it back, name the feeling, stop.)
- Weeks three and four. Same deal: one email a day, one more thing to do or say. (Every email stays in your inbox, so you can run any of them again.)
Price: $27
THIS IS SO HELPFUL, I NEED THIS!Luke and his wife still go on a date every week, 27 years in!
me and my wife go on a date every week and we ask your questions every time. Thanks so much for helping us continue to get to know each other even 27 years later.
“Hunter, what if I'm just not the romantic type?”
I hear that one a lot. "I'm just not romantic" is the same sentence as "I'm just not a gym guy." Both mean the same thing: no reps yet.
I say that with love, because I was both. Strength coach, two left feet, and for years the only thing I could dip was a barbell. The reps fixed it. Nothing else did.
Nobody's born knowing how to make a woman feel adored, so this plan gives you one rep a day, and the first one is a text you can send in 30 seconds.
I'M READY TO LEARN FROM YOU!My wife will text, "Where do you get this stuff from?" I respond, "I do the research to improve myself every week. I put in the work."
Tommy's wife keeps asking where he gets this stuff. He's ready for it!
Day 3 gives you your own answer before she asks.
I'M READY TO OWN IT!Want a sneak‑peek preview?
Here's how Day 1 starts.
Here's the deal with the next 30 days.
One email a day. Each one gives you one simple thing to do or say to her.
Most take about ten minutes. Today's takes 30 seconds.
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Romance isn't a gene. It's a skill.
And the whole skill is just thoughtfulness... mixed with spice, variety, and surprise. (More on those three as we go.)
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Rep one... send her this text, word for word (swap "baby" for whatever you call her):
"Hi baby, just a reminder: you're not an option. You're my priority. If there is anything I can do to demonstrate that this week let me know, love you."
Don't add to it. Don't explain it. Send it, then go about your day like nothing happened.
Matthew and his wife tried one idea from Hunter's email and called it a blast!
Earlier this week we did the "travel agent" idea from your email last week and it was a blast! Simple, free, but a really nice way to connect and enjoy some laughs together.
Every Thursday we take your email to our greenhouse, light a small fire in the woodstove and talk, share a drink and work through your email together. It's created a weekly connection that we both look forward to, and has no doubt increased our love for each other and feelings of closeness as a couple.
Andy and his wife turned Hunter's emails into a standing Thursday date!
I WANT NIGHTS LIKE THAT!Here's what you get:
- One email a day from Hunter, starting with Day 1 right after you order
- One simple thing to do or say to her in every email
- Two full date nights at home in the first two weeks
- Hit reply on any email and Hunter reads it
just fill out your info below and Day 1 goes to your inbox:
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30-Day Money-Back Guarantee: if you two don't love it, you get a full refund.
If for any reason you don't enjoy it, simply email hunter@showheroff.com within 30 days and you will get a 100% refund, no questions asked.
Have more questions?
How does it show up?
By email, from Hunter Masters. Day 1 goes out right after you order, then one email a day after that.
How much time does it take?
Not much! Most emails take about ten minutes to act on. Day 1 takes 30 seconds.
Will she know where this is coming from?
That's up to you! Day 3 covers exactly what to say if she asks where the new you came from.
What if I skip a day?
Nothing breaks! The next email still shows up, and you can go back to the one you skipped any time.
Is this the Date Nights Dancing program?
No! This is the 30-day email plan. Some emails mention the dance program, and you never have to buy it to get everything in the plan.
Is there a money-back guarantee?
Yes! If for any reason you don't enjoy it, simply email hunter@showheroff.com within 30 days and you will get a 100% refund, no questions asked.