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Words for Your Wife

How To Tell Your Wife What You Feel

Get 204 love messages, connection questions and romantic things to do, written for your wife, even if the first line never comes to you.

Words for Your Wife, a handwritten journal by candlelight

“I’m still just a man and like many of us we don’t always have the capacity to inherently think of these questions on our own.”A husband who reads The Spark

Since 2015 I’ve watched husbands who swore they weren’t romantic make their wives light up.

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Every week I send questions and texts to the readers of The Spark. Here’s what the husbands write back:

“me and my wife go on a date every week and we ask your questions every time. Thanks so much for helping us continue to get to know each other even 27 years later.”

Luke D.Spark reader, email to Hunter

“she can’t wait to see what questions I have for her.”

“I take my wife out to eat every Friday night and she can’t wait to see what questions I have for her.”

Tommy B.Spark reader, email to Hunter

Words for Your Wife requires NO:

  • No writing talent
  • No poetry
  • No grand gesture
  • No big budget
  • No sign-up for her
  • No memorizing lines
  • No planning a whole evening
  • No guessing what to say first

What happens after you order:

  1. 1

    I email you.

    A few questions about your wife: her name, how long you’ve been together, what she lights up about…

  2. 2

    You reply in a few lines.

    What she’s said she misses, and the one thing you’ve wanted to say and never have…

  3. 3

    The words get built for her.

    From your answers, plus your full library of messages, questions and romantic things to do.

You tell me about her, and I take care of the wording.

Words for Your Wife

What’s Included?

  • 52 Love Messages for Your Wife. Sweet, playful, appreciative and romantic. Send one as a text or write it as a note you leave for her to find. (For the moment her face is in your head and the first line won’t come.)
  • Room for your own detail. Some messages are ready to send as written. Others show you exactly where the memory, nickname or private joke goes. (So it sounds like the two of you.)
  • 100 Connection Questions for Your Wife. Made for the woman you’ve shared a life with, not a stranger across a dinner table. (Good on a date night, a long drive or the couch after the kids are down.)
  • 52 Romantic Things to Do for Her. Small, easy ways to show her you love her when an action fits better than another message. (Handy if she’s not a texter.)
  • The Monday Romance Reminder. A short email every Monday for 12 weeks with a few picks for that week. (So you’re choosing from a handful, not from 204.)
  • Your Private Romance Library. Everything above in one place, sent to you after you order. (Nothing for her to join. You decide what to share.)
  • One price, yours for good. $49 once. (No subscription, nothing renews.)
  • [bonus] My questions about your wife. Right after you order I email you a few questions about her. Reply in a few lines and the words get built for her. (The part no list can know: her name, what she lights up about, what she’s said she misses.)

Price: $49, one time

BONUS: Words Built for Her From Your Answers

A list can give you a great first line. It can’t know that she still laughs about your first apartment, or that she’s said she misses the way you used to talk. So after you order, I email you a few questions about your wife. You reply in a few lines, and the words get built for her from what you tell me.

Hunter at Show Her Off
A few questions about your wife
  1. Her name
  2. How long you’ve been together
  3. What she lights up about
  4. What she’s said she misses
  5. One thing you’ve wanted to say and never have

Included FREE*

*with your order of Words for Your Wife.

“these triggered the longest conversations to date”

“man, the conversation questions were deep. these triggered the longest conversations to date from the spark email!”

Sean L.Spark reader, email to Hunter

“Hunter, what if the words don’t sound like me?”

Think of them as a starting point. Some messages are ready to send the way they’re written. Others leave a spot for the memory, the nickname or the joke only the two of you get. And when you answer my questions about her, the words get built from your own answers, so they already carry your details.

You already know what you feel about her. Words for Your Wife gives you the first line, and you fill in the rest.

“she still thinks I come up with them myself”

“That questionnaire two weeks ago with additional questions was particularly insightful and appreciated by my wife (though she still thinks I come up with them myself)!”

Tommy B.Spark reader, email to Hunter

Want a sneak-peek preview?

Ready to send as written

“Caught myself staring at you this morning. Loved every minute of it.”

Add the detail only you know

I was thinking about [a memory you still replay], and it made me want to tell you [what you love about her in that moment].

“deeper to my wife’s heart”

“The questions work to help me get deeper to my wife’s heart and her needs than I can normally get.”

Tommy B.Spark reader, email to Hunter

Have more questions?

Are the messages ready to send?

Some are ready to send as written. Others have a short prompt for a memory, detail or private joke. Fill it in, read it once, and send it.

What’s in the email from Hunter?

A few questions about your wife: her name, how long you’ve been together, what she lights up about, what she’s said she misses, and one thing you’ve wanted to say and never have. Hit reply, answer in a few lines, and the words get built for her from your answers.

Will the words sound like me?

The messages give you a natural starting point and your own details make them yours. You decide which words fit your voice.

Does my wife have to join anything?

No. Your Private Romance Library is for you. You choose what to share with her.

What if she’s not a texter?

Write a message as a handwritten note, or pick one of the 52 Romantic Things to Do for Her.

Is this for a marriage in serious trouble?

No. These are words, questions and romantic things to do. If your marriage is in trouble, please talk to a counselor or therapist.

How do I get everything?

Your Private Romance Library is sent to you after you order, the Monday Romance Reminder comes every Monday for 12 weeks, and my email with the questions about your wife comes right after you order.

Still have a question?

Email hunter@showheroff.com or text 303-376-2526.

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100% 30-Day Money-Back Guarantee

If for any reason you don’t love Words for Your Wife, simply email me at hunter@showheroff.com within 30 days and you’ll get a 100% refund, no questions asked.

Hunter Masters, Founder, Show Her Off

Words for Your Wife

How To Tell Your Wife What You Feel

Get 204 love messages, connection questions and romantic things to do, written for your wife, even if the first line never comes to you.

Words for Your Wife

Price: $49, one time

What’s included?

  • 52 Love Messages for Your Wife
  • 100 Connection Questions for Your Wife
  • 52 Romantic Things to Do for Her
  • The Monday Romance Reminder for 12 weeks
  • Your Private Romance Library
  • [bonus] My questions about your wife, and the words built for her from your answers

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