I run the company, so my word is the least useful thing on this page: the complaints go in whole, and everything else is something you can check without me.
You typed some version of show her off scam into a search bar, and the search engine handed you the company's own website. So you already know what's wrong with the page you're on: I'm the one selling the thing.
Which leaves one version of this worth writing. I print the worst things people have sent me, exactly as they arrived, and then I hand you the things you can check without taking my word for any of it.
A stranger on your feed asks for a card number in exchange for something you can't hold. Anybody sensible looks that up first.
Plenty of people buy anyway and name the risk while they're doing it. This one went into the gift-message box at checkout:
A bit risky to go off of a social media advertisement, but we could use some new moves! Merry Christmas!
Whoever wrote that had already priced the risk, decided it was small, and said so to the person opening the gift. That's a reasonable way to buy anything online.
Some of the confusion here is mine to own, because there are three names in play and you have probably only met one of them.
Show Her Off is the name on the ads. Show Her Off Dance, LLC is the business, and that name sits in the footer of every page on this site, including this one. Date Nights Dancing is the program you would be buying.
I'm Hunter Masters. I'm the man on the videos. I taught couples in person for years before I built any of this, and I was a guest on Marcy Sullivan's marriage podcast talking about the same material I write here.
Date Nights Dancing is easy swing taught at home, fifteen minutes at a time, the two of you on the same video from the first one. No studio.
None of that requires trusting me. The footer of this page carries a contact link and a privacy policy. The same instructor's face is on every video, and the byline on every article here is mine. And the page you would pay on names the price and the terms above the button, where you can read them before you decide anything.
This came in by email, from the man who had bought the program:
Sorry to say my wife thought it must be a scam and cancelled the credit card purchase.
He's apologizing to me. He had that backwards. What she had in front of her was an unfamiliar charge from a company nobody in the house had mentioned, for something with no box arriving. Cancelling was the right call. I'd want her looking after my card.
If that's your kitchen tonight, arguing my case for me is the wrong job to take on. You'd both be better off sitting down and looking at the page together before anybody pays. A purchase two people have seen doesn't become a mystery charge on a statement three weeks later.
The sharpest complaint I've received:
That's very deceiving to have the ad say to click the link to get the lessons when it's for a subscription to something totally different.
I'm printing that without a rebuttal attached. I can't see which ad they clicked or what they ended up ordering, and a company arguing with a customer it can't identify is not worth your time to read.
What I can give you is the rule I use on my own card. The page where you type the number is the one that counts, not the ad that got you there. Before you hit the button, that page should name what you're buying, what it costs, and whether anything renews. If those three things aren't on the page, don't buy, from me or from anybody. If they are on the page and what shows up doesn't match them, that is the entire reason a refund window exists.
Somebody asked me this straight out:
I'm not saying you're business will go under but if it ever does how do I keep the lessons?
That's the version of the scam question I have the least satisfying answer to. I can't sign a promise on behalf of a company that has stopped existing. Nobody selling you access to video can, whatever their page says about it.
So I'd weigh it the way you'd weigh anything delivered to you over the internet. The refund window sitting in front of you right now is the part with teeth. Mine is 30-day money-back.
If you're reading this with a statement open and a line on it you don't recognize, nothing above fixes that, and I can't see your order from here.
Use the contact link in the footer of this page. Include the email address the purchase was made with and the date on the charge, because those two are what I need to find an order.
Every complaint printed above came out of that inbox. That's the only evidence I can offer you that mail sent to it reaches a person.
Three rules, and you can apply every one of them before you spend anything.
1. Buy nothing you can't identify from the page you'd pay on.
2. If you share the card with her, say so before you use it rather than after. The cancelled card up above started with a charge that surprised the person who didn't make it.
3. Separate the two questions. Your real one might be whether this works for the two of you rather than whether the company is real, and I've answered that kind elsewhere.
Those answers are here: whether any of it works if you have no rhythm, home versus a local studio, and how long it takes before you can dance to a song. Everything else I write for couples sits in the ideas hub.
Checking first doesn't offend me. I'd do the same with my own money, and getting this far into a page about your own suspicion says you're careful with what you spend on her.
If you check all of that and still want it, Date Nights Dancing is easy swing taught at home, fifteen minutes at a time, both of you on the same video from the first one, no studio. It's 30-day money-back. The price and the terms are on that page, and I'd rather you read them there than take my word for them here.
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